tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3999815824061676937.post8420614512959415896..comments2023-10-18T04:52:01.152-07:00Comments on Edge of the Known World: RepossessionKatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08478412858941119681noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3999815824061676937.post-61499686732451500852011-04-01T20:47:45.184-07:002011-04-01T20:47:45.184-07:00Utah??? Umm nope--I'm trying to get away from ...Utah??? Umm nope--I'm trying to get away from the cold!!!!!! hehehe<br /><br />Okay dear repossession?? Yes--all of it--get it all gone. But take it easy on yourself--it's gong to take some time--maybe in some major time-so your friends will just have to be patient about it!!!!<br /><br />Its ok to look back it's even okay to think about him and ache about it...just when you allow yourself that moment--then lock it back up!!!!! heheh<br /><br />xoxoxocinnibonbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12074109632970180290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3999815824061676937.post-45973871970065162532011-04-01T11:56:18.114-07:002011-04-01T11:56:18.114-07:00Maria, Dive and Gibbonesque: thanks very much for...Maria, Dive and Gibbonesque: thanks very much for your kind words. I am making it fine, sort of. However, the turmoil in my secret mind is much greater than it seems when just viewing my behavior. I spend almost every waking moment wondering what might come next and what CB is thinking and why he showed up at the rec, etc... Is MW really well? Are they happy now? Is he glad that this was the outcome? Did he come to the rec because he wanted closure? Does he ever think about me? Does he miss me? If a man instits that you are his destiny, doesn't that mean that he could try to come back into your life at some point in the future? If he were to show up in front of me and say, "I'm not with MW any more and I want to know if there's a chance for us," would I tell him (very sweetly) to get lost? My friends would say, "GO! GO! GO!" I would probably say, "Let's go get a cuppa and talk about it a little more." And Maria, thanks for being a little easy on me. My counselor here in SLC is a hard-ass. :)Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08478412858941119681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3999815824061676937.post-41814175948330578672011-04-01T05:19:43.747-07:002011-04-01T05:19:43.747-07:00Can I just say that I think you are doing splendid...Can I just say that I think you are doing splendidly? WHY on earth have you only given yourself 60 days? When I read about you seeing CB as you were going down the stairs, I actually felt my heart ache for you. How difficult that must have been. You are human, Kate. Do me a favor and listen to that old sentimental song by Keith Urban: "Tonight I Wanna Cry." <br /><br />And then just do it. Because you are such a glorious personality and I promise that you will come out on the other end so much stronger. And then you must promise me to help someone else who will be in the sort of pain that you are in now. Because they are going to need you and by then, you will have so much to tell them...plus it is good karma. <br /><br />You are a person of great value.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05049511202014141182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3999815824061676937.post-72748964709313384792011-04-01T00:49:46.485-07:002011-04-01T00:49:46.485-07:00During my two year version of your sixty day detox...During my two year version of your sixty day detox, Kate, it took at least four months for the heartache to let up sufficiently for me to start reclaiming old places for myself.<br />It hurts like hell but it does happen in the end. Being told to be patient when it's driving you crazy doesn't help much but that's what I'm telling you. Hang in there and you'll make it through to the other side.divehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12938980502783421961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3999815824061676937.post-72765712233891510822011-03-31T23:29:49.617-07:002011-03-31T23:29:49.617-07:00What does love feel like? One of the best answers ...What does love feel like? One of the best answers I've seen to that question is "something you can't do anything about." <br />If it was as easy as formulating an action plan and sticking to it, generations of women would have been 'washing that man right out of my hair' a la Rodgers & Hammerstein. So if this plan of yours works, maybe you should patent the formula and sell it to Pantene. Or, accept that maybe it just wasn't love at all...gibbonesquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14400817557444356038noreply@blogger.com